This essay, based on an interview with Barbara Ford, an 83-year-old registered nurse and patient advocate, highlights her unique experiences. Ford’s husband worked into his 80s until health concerns prompted his retirement. The following content has been edited for brevity and clarity.
A nurse’s role is to assist those in need. Sharing knowledge is crucial; if you possess skills and someone is struggling, it’s important to offer help.
My first job was as a board clerk at the University of Rochester’s hospital. My aspiration was to be a nurse, and I realized I could attend community college to obtain my registered nurse license. I still vividly remember the thrill I felt, as this was my dream turning into reality.
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I was married with three young children—aged 2, 4, and 6—while working full-time. I earned my RN in two years and continued at the University of Rochester, specializing in pediatrics. As my children grew, I became a certified school nurse before returning to hospital work. I eventually became assistant director of nursing at a community hospital and later worked in an emergency room in Virginia. I retired in 1990, but I have never truly stopped working.
Even at 83, I am still employed. After retiring, I attended truck driving school, and my husband and I operated our truck for 21 years, transporting government explosives nationwide. I eventually returned to nursing in hospice care, which I always aspired to, but I had to step back from patient care due to my age and balance issues. Recently, I began a new role as a patient advocate for a healthcare company, working from home, which I’m excited about.
Although my husband and I receive Social Security and I have a small retirement fund from my hospital job, we do not rely on trucking for income. Thankfully, we can enjoy meals out without financial stress. We’ve raised five children—four biological and one adopted—and helped them throughout their lives. While we could have been financially better off had we kept everything for ourselves, I don’t regret it. I want to support my family when they need it. After all, many people struggle without such a safety net.
